It’s okay to be at a loss of words, that way you can be quiet and just listen.
It’s a common habit of to call up a close friend when in distress, but I lost sight of the point of that. There is no true benefit or solution that comes from bitching and moaning about being upset. And if you don’t know the answer to your own problem, odds are, neither will a friend.
“The (500) Days of Summer attitude of “He wants you so bad” seems attractive to some women and men, especially younger ones, but I would encourage anyone who has a crush on my character to watch it again and examine how selfish he is. He develops a mildly delusional obsession over a girl onto whom he projects all these fantasies. He thinks she’ll give his life meaning because he doesn’t care about much else going on in his life. A lot of boys and girls think their lives will have meaning if they find a partner who wants nothing else in life but them. That’s not healthy. That’s falling in love with the idea of a person, not the actual person.”—Joseph Gordon-Levitt (on (500) Days of Summer)
It’s about knowing the sun will shine the next day and life goes on. It’s about knowing who and what is truly important in your life. It’s about enjoying the little things that make you happy even and especially after a bad day. It’s about dealing with problems to the best of your abilities with out being obsessed. It’s about growing up at the perfect pace. It’s about working at bettering yourself every day.